In this bananarama world, no two people act the same way, look the same way, or like the same things. It rocks.

It’s a wondrous thing that one person will happily overlook the inevitable flaws of a certain person, to see something special that others have failed to spot…..

Colleen fancies Wayne, Kate fancies Pete, David fancies Victoria. Each pairing a mystery to others, but a marvellous thing for the universe. After all, if everyone fancied the same version of perfection then Angelina and Brad would be the only people in a relationship – and I suspect even they may run out of bedrooms were they the only ones responsible for populating the earth

On this basis I think it’s worth remembering that even those born with a face like a bag of minced bum-holes will have a special quality that will attract the right person. There’s absolutely no certainty the ug-bugs amongst us will be left with nowt but the dregs at the bottom of the pile.

I suspect however that the mysterious reason less attractive dudes sometime pair up with a ‘Johnny McTrousersAFlame’ is their inherent belief that they are themselves hot. When they look in the mirror they don’t see the knarled and mauled features the rest of us do, they see Prince Charming.

That is why a loss of confidence in someone who was never blessed in the ‘hummanna hummana hummmana’ stakes is such a fatal blow. Without confidence in oneself nobody will ever have confidence in you. Why would the girl with the killer legs and wazoo’s to die for even look at you once, let alone twice, unless you believe you’re worth looking at?

So if you are one of those who has lost confidence then I would suggest that you try, at least for one night, faking it.

Just pretend that every girl or guy in the room fancies you, there’s no way they don’t; you’re just too fit to ignore. Look, act, stand and talk as if there is no one else even remotely as attractive as you. Then just see what happens….

If you see somebody hot, go over and chat like you have every right to talk to them, like you believe they’ve been giving you the eye all night. They’ll be knocked off guard by your confidence and doubtless pretty impressed too.

If you try this often enough then you’ll stop pretending and start believing. And once the ‘confidence effect’ kicks in and you start pulling the lookers that no one else ever thought you could, the very best thing of all will happen. Everyone (you included) will start to believe that they were wrong all along and that you really are too good of a catch to miss. You just cannot lose.

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